Another Drama In My Life That Was Unasked For...

For those of you out there reading this, I just want to say. When you shit on your own child, you can't expect them to come running back for more.

I was well aware of the plan to come over on Tuesday, however, if you had the whole story before making a judgment call and deeply wounding the very person that you claim to love so much, maybe you wouldn't have made such asses of yourselves. We've been stranded in this home since Monday night due to the serpentine belt on the car that we were using going out on Tuesday morning. If either one of had had the sense of mind to remember to pack our cell phone chargers in our luggage before our hurried trip to Baltimore, maybe the cell phone wouldn't have died and he would have been able to receive your calls, called you back, or even heard the voice mails before you had to make it ugly.

You're decision to turn your back on the son that you claim to love so deeply, to take sides with the woman who ripped his heart out of his chest and has shown absolutely NO remorse for it, for not understanding why he couldn't bring himself to look that child in the face every single day and be reminded of the infidelity that was committed against him, to refuse to understand why he would not want to spend the rest of his life with someone that he was so miserable with, and to turn your back on his happiness, that is YOUR decision. If you can't understand that life is exactly what happens when you're busy making plans, that's YOUR choice. However, do NOT hold it against him when he decides that he doesn't want that conniving, sneaky, two-faced, little whore in his life. Or that child. That is HIS decision, and it's HIS life. Hate it as much as you want, you CANNOT and WILL NOT control his life ANYMORE!

You're job as a parent, as a REAL, LOVING, and TRUE parent, is to be there for your child. Not the person that hurt them SO deeply. And that's the path that YOU have chosen to take. You are solely responsible for the wedge that has been driven in between you and this wonderful man.

If you can't accept the fact that he has moved on, the fact that he is far happier now than he EVER has been in his life, that's your problem and I pity you. I just can't understand how you can not only turn your back on your own child, but how you could drive such a deep knife into his back at the same time. As a mother, I will NEVER do that to my child. Your decision to keep that woman and the product of her infidelity in your life on such an active basis is your own decision. But just know that you have now hurt this man deeper than she could have ever hurt him. He's your own flesh and blood. That's just sick.

I don't even know what else to say to you. Other than to let you know that you have personally caused his very first stress induced seizure of this trip. Congratulations. I hope that you're all VERY happy with yourselves.

I love this man more than I've ever experienced in my life, and for you to react and say everything that you've said, it honestly turns my stomach. I will be here for him as I have been so far, and I will always continue to be here for him. Not just when it's convenient for you. This is the man that I have waited for SO long to come into my life, and like it or leave it, with or without your blessing, we will be getting married when all is said and done. Don't expect an invitation.

You've done nothing but show me your true colors without ever even having to meet you. Thank you for that. Now at least I know I don't even need to waste my time.