June 01, 2005

Wow!!

OMG!! Has it really been over 2 weeks since I posted last? Holy Hell! I've got so much to catch everyone up on!

Let's see here, first let me tell you about my parents. I love my parents fiercly and I would do anything for them. Last year they recieved notice that the trailor park they were living in would be closing down, so they would have to move. Well, after spending almost a whole year looking for a place to live, they finally came to an agreement with a so-called friend of theirs, that they would rent the house she had wrongfully inherited from a very dear, and way too trusting family friend that had passed away. She was moving somewhere near Boston, and wanted to rent the house out.

Well this "Stupid Fucking Whore", as I call her since that's what she is, (Pardon my language, this woman really pisses me off more than anything I can think of, and you'll soon see why), was only able to inherite the house because she promised the previous owner that she would NEVER sell the house, or the 8 acres that came with it. The previous owner, God rest his soul, had built the whole house with his own hands. Everything in that house he put there or installed himself. He had built this house for his beloved wife, who had passed a number of years before him. The house was his tribute to his wife, and anytime he looked at ANYTHING in that house it reminded him of some wonderful memory of his wife.

My parent's were able to rent the house from the SFW because she knew that my parents had dearly loved the previous owner, and respected that house more than anyone ever could, besides the previous owner, that is. So my parents moved in last October.

Well, early last month, the SFW decided that she is going to sell not only the house, but the land as well. She flew into town, was here for at least a whole week, and only had the nerve to show her face at the house for all of 5 minutes. Long enough to drop the bombshell on my mom that they now had 30 days to completely vacate the house, and to get my mom to sign the agreement that she was notified and agreed to move out in that time frame.

*A little back history for a second, because I forgot to mention that when my parent's were forced to move from their original home because the land was sold, it wasn't just my parent's who had to move, but my Grandmother as well... she owned a trailor across from my parent's. Unfortunately the place that my Grandmother moved to does not have nearly enough room to hold even a quarter of the things she owns, so most of her stuff had to be stored at the house my parents were renting.

Unfortunately, my parent's don't make that much money at their jobs, and can't afford too much. Recently my parent's have been so strapped for cash that my mom hasn't been able to make her car payment in almost 4 months. So for them to find a place to rent, that is within their price range, is damn near impossible. For the past month now, I've been stressing so hard on what my parent's are going to do. I was even at the point where me and David were going to purchase a house and land and just let my parents live there and pay the mortgage. Unfortunately thats not an option for us for another 2 and a half months because David is currently being sued by State Farm for an accident he was involved in before we started dating. The amount that SF is asking for is absolutely rediculous, but we don't want to take the chance that the court will decide to take the property as payment on the judgement.

Well, thankfully after a whole month of serious stressing over all of this, my mom finally was able to find a place to rent.... a whole 5 days before the deadline of moving out. That left us 5 days to get EVERYTHING, and my parent's have a LOT of stuff, out of the house, get everything out of the huge shed on the 8 acres, and get the two sheds that my parent's own, off the property. For the past 3 days I have been helping my mom move everything either to the new place, or to the storage unit that they are being forced to rent. With yesterday being the last day, it was by far the longest. I showed up around noon, and didn't get home until 2 in the morning. Oh my god am I tired!!!

So that is one of the stressors that has been lifted off of my shoulders.

As for the other really MAJOR stressor that has been put on me.... The whole custody case involving my evil, vile, horrid ex-mother-in-law, and my 4 year old daughter, it is finally drawing to a final close. There is in fact a final hearing date set, and the end is not only in sight, but so damn close too! The final hearing date is set for June 8th. We got the custody investogators report back and it could not have been better for me!! I am so thankful that through it all, this whole time I've been telling people what a nut job this woman is, and how messed up in the head she is... no one ever really paid it any heed, just kind of brushed it off... well thank God that the CI saw through all this woman's bullshit. I got exactly what I was hoping for from the CI, a full recommendation that I recieve sole legal and physical custody, with no set visitation times set forth, so that I can arrange the visitation however I see fit. Yay for me!!

Oh, and if you don't know anyone who has ever done a civilian arrest.... you do now!! Hehehe

On Monday, Memorial Day, David, the kids, and I were coming home from my helping my parents move... They live about an hour away from us, in another town... We were driving down the highway when all of a sudden, these three guys on motorcycles go flying past us... They had to have been doing at least 110 MPH.. and they were weaving in and out of traffic, riding the center line, sometimes dashing in between cars that are driving side by side. Completely reckless, with no concern for other peoples live, let alone theirs apparently. Well, there was a 4th guy on a bike that had got caught behind two trucks that were hauling construction equipment, but as soon as the coast was clear and he could get past them, he took off like a bat out of hell trying to catch up to his friends. I mean these guys came so close to my van that the one bike was about an inch from my side mirror. Well, the area that this happened at has no cell reception, at least not from my carrier. But as soon as I had reception, I contacted the police department and reported the bikers. They informed me that they had already recieved several calls on these guys, and had a locate out on them, but the dispatcher asked me for my name and number just in case they needed another witness.

Well, these guys were being so stupid... and I don't mean the typical "out of the gene pool, damn it" stupid, I'm talking you should be executed for being that damn stupid.... that the rest of the way home I'm expecting to come around one of the bends in the highway to see the flashing red and blues, and flashing solid reds and to come up on some horrible, horrible accident. That didn't happen, but as soon as we did get to town, right at the first off ramp, there were the flashing red and blues, 2 cops had pulled over the 4th biker... the one I called the slow one. I took that off ramp, because it was the one I needed, and called back to dispatch. I informed them that the biker the officers had pulled over at that exit was in fact one of the 4 that were driving recklessly on the highway. They said thank you and hung up, and soon as I hung up my phone, another dispatcher called me right back and asked me if I would be willing to go and identify the guy for the officers. I told them that I was MORE than willing to do that. So I went back, I got to use the emergency turn around on the highway... hehehe... and when I pulled up to the officers, one of them came over and explained that because they weren't there and didn't see it, they would not be able to arrest the guy unless someone did a citizens arrest, and would I be willing to do that. I told them that I most definitely would be willing to do that. Unfortunately, it wasn't what most people would expect, because I didn't even get to talk to the guy at all, I just had to sit in my van, and fill out some paperwork for the officer stating that I was placing this person under citizen arrest, and what I saw that prompted the CA. But as soon as the guy had heard that there was a witness on their way back to ID him, he gave up the other 3 bikers. So all 3 of them got arrested all because of me!! WOOHOO, GO ME!!

There's a lot more to tell, but the batteries are dying in my keyboard so I'm going to have to save it until later!

Until then, Ciao Baby!

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